3 Tips For Conflict Resolution

In this Video we share 3 tips For Conflict Resolution and Management where possible. Lovers argue every now and then. Solution may not always be in reach at the moment you argue but handling conflict well reduces repeated issues and lengthly dysfunctional encounters which scar both people for life.

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3 Reasons Why Boyfriends Should Not Get Husband Benefits

In this video we talk about 3 Reasons why Boyfriends Should Not Get Husband Benefits.

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3 Tips On Growing Your Relationship

In this Video we talk about How to get to know your partner better. There is hope people. Its not so hard if you have help. Enjoy

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For The Ladies and The Guys Who Want To Be With Them

If the guy youre with is  talking real love hes going to have to work much harder because any woman worth her weight in salt  hangs around people who don’t play around here..

For the longest time I have seen women in my life disrespected who I knew were valuable and I kept quiet and never confronted the guy because I didn’t want to lose standing out of fear of being seen as the interfering guy but everytime I let the guy slip it got worse until the girl is lumbered with baggage from Pregnancy to Debt and the guy walks off like all is well and its on to the next one then we who care are left wondering how to put the woman together again.

Well Im Grateful to say that as of today I will not be standing by to watch Gods daughters abused while I call myself a man of. Secondly to every woman youre my sister and I love you,  always have and always will believe in you.

This means that where disaster can be avoided I will blow the horn loudly just to save you. You don’t always have to like me when I make an attempt to save you.  However all I can say from now is Trust God more and not in the appearance of his love, the declaration of his attention or the persistence of his  aggression and in the worst way the begging man.

Youre precious to us men who love and honour God and because we value you there will be intervention. If your special friend isn’t interested in that then he can go back to whoever is prepared to suck whatever comes out of him. But in the case of wanting to stay hes going to need a bible,  and some time to read and understand how a woman should be treated.

To my Brothers wise up though, the days of pillage and plunder are actually over,  welcome to the realm of love or be ejected. Are you really ready for the Love you talk so much about?

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He Won’t Wear Protection

Dear Mrs Vito, I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months and despite my love for him I’m worried about us. I’m a Christian and believe in no sex before marriage, however we’ve found ourselves not keeping this principle. From the beginning I’ve told him what I wanted and even suggested he go to the […]

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Setting Boundaries In Relationships 2

In this the second part to the Boundaries Series, we talked about boundaries and how they should apply in Marriage Relationships specifically. It was an interesting and tense set of values put forward. So grab a pen and pad and lets see what you make of it.

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Questions To Know When Dating 5

Questions To Know When Dating 5 covers the process of digging Deeper into the Character of the person and checking if investing in the person is worth a life time or a cup of coffee. Questions can make the difference between wasting time, money, effort, affection and keeping safe.

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Questions To Know When Dating 4

Dating is not an overnight process and neither should it be perceived as such other wise you will soon feel the pain of premature attachments. Its time you practice slow love and dont mix your lusts with good intentions. Ask questions that reveal character rather than seducing to expose someone that you cannot take care of.

In this show  we continue to ask and talk about issues to do with Dating and getting to know someone. The questions are focused around Personality Traits of your partner or prospective person. There’s something in this for everyone who needs ask the right things.

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The Good News Is – We Have A Radio Show!

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Ladies and Gentlemen, so sorry we have seemingly been quiet. #TeamVito has been busy trying to create some more things you can enjoy. Following on from our Real Love Looks Like Work Events… 7! to be precise a great opportunity opened up for us that we knew was right to take advantage of. An Organisation whom we had spoken at their events some 2 years back offered us the chance to host a radio show on their behalf. The organisation is called the OFNC. Aside from the honour we felt to represent them on radio it was proof that there is so much more work to do to help people find out more about how to grow and pace their relationships.

So having taken it on, our show is now on Thursdays @ 7pm on this link right here. http://www.reconcilersradio.net/ or you can access the show via the Tune Inn app just by searching for Reconcilers Radio when in doubt here is another link

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The Secret Labours Of Love

Relationships still remain a touchy affair for a lot of people..Everyone wants to progress into the right one but they go for the wrong one and try to make it work out like the right ones do instead of doing the secret labours that those in the right ones do for them to work best in… Love is supposed to work but for all the right reasons and it will if a choice is made to push in the same agreed direction.

How I wish that it was simpler for people to find love and keep it going, but we are seeing this become more evident in the rocky relationships of our favourite celebrities and the sometimes seemingly none existent relationships our parents are in. There are things beneath the surface that a camera cannot capture or an instagram picture cannot capture, we may be able to record the physical whereabouts of our loved ones and stalk their social media accounts and even read their habits through their web searches but when it comes to the control of someone’s emotional energy and their internal choices no one can predict them. This indeed is where secret labours come into play.

Secret labours of Love go far beyond what we can touch and actually work on how to control how and what  we feel. When I’m in doubt about what I can see happening in my relationship I must put my pride aside no matter how difficult to resolve my doubts and that happens through going back to the purpose for which I’m with the woman I chose and literally linking the dots about the source of my internal conflicts. She too must learn to do her own secret labours and avoid compartmentalising her frustrations.   A secret labour is making choices like thinking right before you answer the woman you love. Secret labour is reading a book, going to a seminar, talking to level headed counsel about what makes women tick and using the things learned to decipher the complexity that is your woman. Secret labour is learning to say sorry for your embarrassing actions and resolving internally not to do it again as opposed to avoiding getting caught with your pants down. Secret labours are ensuring you have nothing incriminating on your phone and neither do you find yourself attracting or sticking around people who bring out that kind of thing in you. Secret labours are protecting your home by regularly communicating with your wife about your concerns and sweeping nothing under the carpet. Secret labours include actually forgiving your Spouse especially when you understand the reasons for their wrong doing. Secret labours are working on yourself regularly enough to see progress that you are proud of. Secret labours are accepting responsibility is not the worst thing in the world.

A whole host of things that people don’t do but yes they still expect their Love to work like clock work. If only they knew that SECRET LABOURS make all the difference and provide a unique perspective on the future of their relationship. I recently read somewhere that people spend more money trying to fix a disastrous relationship than they do preventing the disaster.

Use secret labours and make your relationship a fortified place of intimacy, personal discovery and motivation.

Come and learn more about Secret Labours that make the difference.