We would both like to congratulate all mothers who have worked hard to ensure their children become something in this difficult world. There are so many children who have been left without a mother for one reason or the other but you stayed, you related and you initiated and you are still raising your children to stand for something. One thing We want to say to you is no matter how successful you get financially remember to continue to value your children. You are granted wisdom to first put your seed in great standing. Money is part of that process but not all of it.

Your children turning out well should be counted as part of your greater picture and although money says chase me your children eternally cry “raise me”.

So as you celebrate today we want you to know you are appreciated. You are at this stage where your child needs you and your time and effort may sometimes be taken for granted but you will overcome the odds and shape history with your efforts.

To the children reading this post your mother is part of your foundation, your walls, and your rooftop, so treat her like Pure Gold, she is important.

So Happy Mother’s Day!!

In honour of this
We pray mothers and their children find peace in the midst of a difficult world. We pray that the Mothers and Fathers come together in Unity through Gods grace to instruct and boundary their kids to grow and succeed in all facets.

In Jesus Name,

Amen

With Love and Courage

Mr and Mrs Vito

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Real Love Looks Like Work – Love & Purpose

Hey Guys!!

Happy New Year to you all, we trust that this entry finds you all happy at the start of what promises to both be a great and interesting new year. We also hope that you have set your goals and are already in motion to figure out how  you can maximise of being effective towards your dreams. Someone reading this could be dreaming about the Man or Woman they are going to meet who will inevitably change their life for the better. Not that we depend on the person coming to be our all in all  but that we love ourselves enough to become dependable for the person who is coming. What about your pupose though surely without purpose there is no point to a relationship… WRONG!! Purpose will determine the kind of a relationships you allow to entertain. However the quality of your chosen relationship will determine how consistently you attend to your purpose.

So seeing as this is a mixed bag of tricks full of twists and turns #TeamVito has put together a workshop/seminar/conversation with those two underlying themes, Love & Purpose. Regardless of which one has come first for you whether Love or Purpose, you dont need to choose between one or the other but you must know that that the two affect each other in more ways than one. Come along and find out how you can walk these two down the route of fufilment.

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We are so looking forward to seeing you all and having a good time talking and walking this path together for a few hours.

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He Suffers From Housework Allergies

Dear Mrs Vito, 

My Husband and I have been married for a year now, we had a beautiful wedding and an even better honeymoon. We both work and have busy schedules, but make time for each other, from going out, having dates nights to chilling at home. I don’t feel like i’m asking for much but he seems to be allergic to helping out at home. For example, if we’ve both been at work, and i get home i’ll make us a meal, it would be nice if he at least washed up, but he doesn’t. Its almost like he expects me to do everything, its a “woman’s role” is what he said once. I do most, if not all of the house work and literally have to beg and plead for him to help, which he calls “nagging”. Lately I’ve given up and do it all, but its a real issue for me, because i feel like he is taking me for granted. To be honest, i didn’t think he would be like this.

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Dear Anon,

When two individuals (independent in thought & behaviour) live together from two different backgrounds, you’re bound to have teething problems. Remember, you have both been taught how to do the same thing in different ways, i.e you are used to washing and drying the plates, meanwhile he had a dishwasher. Or living in a family whereby things are done for you, compared to where you have to share chores, all play a part on how you see yourself carrying out such tasks in the future. Also if you take into consideration past independent living skills, i.e if he lived alone he would have had to tackle housework at some point, but if he still lived with family, before marriage someone would do it eventually.

Sometimes its not that he can’t do these things, its that he won’t/doesn’t, and that’s probably what you resent. He may be aware that you want him to help out around the house because you “nag”him. Not the best way he could describe it, as i’m sure this term doesn’t make you feel good. Yet, unless you spell out your thoughts, he may not be aware that its driving a wedge between the two of you.

If we believe that husbands and wives are partners in love and life then this needs to reflect in day to day activities; discussions need to be had on what we priorities and why. If one of you priorities the need for a clean home, then so should the other. Is not acceptable for your husband to think “if she’s going to do it, then why do I need to do it”. Understandably you’ll feel unappreciated and resentful.

Communication is key, I would suggest having a conversation with your husband; not the typical “you need to wash up more”, but about how you are feeling, why you are feeling that way and what could help to make things better. Its easy to assume that when you get married, things will fall into place, “a wife or husband should know their duties” but without articulating what your expectations are, we can not expect the other person to read our mind. What might be obvious to you, is not to the other person. When you start to shift your thoughts to align with that notion, the more at peace you should feel.

You may also benefit from:

  • Writing a list of the things that need to be done around the house, and agree on who will do what. Optional, but this can be switched regularly so that you both get a go at different tasks.
  • If you both encourage/praise each other once tasks are completed, it will affirm your efforts and you are more likely to feel happy about helping out.
  • Share tasks, as this can allow you to bond, i.e. cook a meal together at least once a week.

Once you don’t feel like you are doing all the work, i’m sure you’ll start to feel better.

Mrs Vito

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For The Ladies and The Guys Who Want To Be With Them

If the guy youre with is  talking real love hes going to have to work much harder because any woman worth her weight in salt  hangs around people who don’t play around here..

For the longest time I have seen women in my life disrespected who I knew were valuable and I kept quiet and never confronted the guy because I didn’t want to lose standing out of fear of being seen as the interfering guy but everytime I let the guy slip it got worse until the girl is lumbered with baggage from Pregnancy to Debt and the guy walks off like all is well and its on to the next one then we who care are left wondering how to put the woman together again.

Well Im Grateful to say that as of today I will not be standing by to watch Gods daughters abused while I call myself a man of. Secondly to every woman youre my sister and I love you,  always have and always will believe in you.

This means that where disaster can be avoided I will blow the horn loudly just to save you. You don’t always have to like me when I make an attempt to save you.  However all I can say from now is Trust God more and not in the appearance of his love, the declaration of his attention or the persistence of his  aggression and in the worst way the begging man.

Youre precious to us men who love and honour God and because we value you there will be intervention. If your special friend isn’t interested in that then he can go back to whoever is prepared to suck whatever comes out of him. But in the case of wanting to stay hes going to need a bible,  and some time to read and understand how a woman should be treated.

To my Brothers wise up though, the days of pillage and plunder are actually over,  welcome to the realm of love or be ejected. Are you really ready for the Love you talk so much about?

Kind regards

King Vito