Firstly what is BAE and how did we get here? Well..
“Bae,” Urban Dictionary says, is an acronym that stands for “before anyone else,” or a shortened version of baby or babe, another word for sweetie, and, mostly unrelated, poop in Danish.25 Jul 2014
I was intrigued by the definition “Before Anyone Else” It kind of lets you know how important or rather how much of your time,effort and attention this one person can get but what happens when that person takes on the danish meaning of Bae? Do we accept and still keep them before anyone else? Do we remain dedicated and loyal to foolishness or do we depart in an orderly fashion and lie in wait for the next Bae? I mean it brings up so many questions but how do we deal with all this? Sometimes the reason it doesnt last with…
Transitioning and navigating from single-hood to a relationship, especially when you know it’s a serious relationship can be hard.
Ideally at this time you want your friends and family to get on with your chosen guy/girl. But what if they don’t?
I personally picked a guy that truly challenged my perceptions, norms and comfort zone. In my opinion to an extreme, except he wasn’t an extremist. Because, if I’m harsh with myself I was ok with playing it safe.
Of course I had goals, ambitions and was driven. Yet not being a huge risk taker meant I often stayed within my comfort zone.
Never one to start a fight, or unsettle a situation. He definitely instilled more confidence in me to stand up for myself, voice my opinion and make a change.
From the outside this can easily be viewed as someone changing, or that they are not being themselves…
Your children turning out well should be counted as part of your greater picture and although money says chase me your children eternally cry “raise me”.
So as you celebrate today we want you to know you are appreciated. You are at this stage where your child needs you and your time and effort may sometimes be taken for granted but you will overcome the odds and shape history with your efforts.
To the children reading this post your mother is part of your foundation, your walls, and your rooftop, so treat her like Pure Gold, she is important.
So Happy Mother’s Day!!
In honour of this
We pray mothers and their children find peace in the midst of a difficult world. We pray that the Mothers and Fathers come together in Unity through Gods grace to instruct and boundary their kids to grow and succeed in all facets.
Happy New Year to you all, we trust that this entry finds you all happy at the start of what promises to both be a great and interesting new year. We also hope that you have set your goals and are already in motion to figure out how you can maximise of being effective towards your dreams. Someone reading this could be dreaming about the Man or Woman they are going to meet who will inevitably change their life for the better. Not that we depend on the person coming to be our all in all but that we love ourselves enough to become dependable for the person who is coming. What about your pupose though surely without purpose there is no point to a relationship… WRONG!! Purpose will determine the kind of a relationships you allow to entertain. However the quality of your chosen relationship will determine how consistently you attend to your purpose.
So seeing as this is a mixed bag of tricks full of twists and turns #TeamVito has put together a workshop/seminar/conversation with those two underlying themes, Love & Purpose. Regardless of which one has come first for you whether Love or Purpose, you dont need to choose between one or the other but you must know that that the two affect each other in more ways than one. Come along and find out how you can walk these two down the route of fufilment.
£8 when you arrive with proof of early bird registration.. thats a £2 discount! Otherwise £10 at the door.
We are so looking forward to seeing you all and having a good time talking and walking this path together for a few hours.
Greetings people so it’s been a good few weeks and the events where you can’t catch dining our thing are mounting up. This weekend we are in great company of Family Values TV great presentation. It’s called the Faithfulness of God and we are honoured and priveledged to be a part of this great conversation. We will be running Workshops and Seminars as well as Q & A’s around Building relationships Gods way.
Whether you know it or not Relationships are part and parcel of fufilling your purpose. Someone once said that when you are on your sick bed you won’t be asking to see your bank account but your family and those who are close to you. Wise up and cultivate that which matters most to your legacy. The fact remains we living in a generation where people have the strongest sense of entitlement to love, to power, to influence, to sex, to respect amongst other things but rarely do they invest in the person they are to become to manage what they believe they are entitled to. That lack of preparation is the reason the generations to come are suffering from pain and disillusionment as the political, financial and other landscapes change. We cannot be the people we need to be without effective preparation and insight. So before we get too deep on this post. We hope to see you there this weekend.
We both trust that you are all doing well. We continue to be busy trying to help people find, keep and grow love. Now of course we have some lovely events for you to get your wisdom teeth into. Yes you are most certainly cordially invited to our next excursion where we will be talking the talk of daily walkers loool
Friday 21st of October 2016 6:30 PM – 9 PM
The event is centred on the concept of placing God at the centre of any relationship and will touch on themes such as: masculinity, cat fishing, dating apps, God’s timing and so much mo along with many other special guests and it promises to be an awesome experience.
CT14 9 London,
6:30 PM – 9 PM
Entry is £3
We hope to see you there guys there.
More good news to come, keep your eyes peeled and keep focused on the things that matter till then.
In this Video we share 3 tips For Conflict Resolution and Management where possible. Lovers argue every now and then. Solution may not always be in reach at the moment you argue but handling conflict well reduces repeated issues and lengthly dysfunctional encounters which scar both people for life.
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If the guy youre with is talking real love hes going to have to work much harder because any woman worth her weight in salt hangs around people who don’t play around here..
For the longest time I have seen women in my life disrespected who I knew were valuable and I kept quiet and never confronted the guy because I didn’t want to lose standing out of fear of being seen as the interfering guy but everytime I let the guy slip it got worse until the girl is lumbered with baggage from Pregnancy to Debt and the guy walks off like all is well and its on to the next one then we who care are left wondering how to put the woman together again.
Well Im Grateful to say that as of today I will not be standing by to watch Gods daughters abused while I call myself a man of. Secondly to every woman youre my sister and I love you, always have and always will believe in you.
This means that where disaster can be avoided I will blow the horn loudly just to save you. You don’t always have to like me when I make an attempt to save you. However all I can say from now is Trust God more and not in the appearance of his love, the declaration of his attention or the persistence of his aggression and in the worst way the begging man.
Youre precious to us men who love and honour God and because we value you there will be intervention. If your special friend isn’t interested in that then he can go back to whoever is prepared to suck whatever comes out of him. But in the case of wanting to stay hes going to need a bible, and some time to read and understand how a woman should be treated.
To my Brothers wise up though, the days of pillage and plunder are actually over, welcome to the realm of love or be ejected. Are you really ready for the Love you talk so much about?