In Bae We Trust Too Much!?

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Firstly what is BAE and how did we get here? Well..

Bae,” Urban Dictionary says, is an acronym that stands for “before anyone else,” or a shortened version of baby or babe, another word for sweetie, and, mostly unrelated, poop in Danish.25 Jul 2014

I was intrigued by the definition “Before Anyone Else” It kind of lets you know how important or rather how much of your time,effort and attention this one person can get but what happens when that person takes on the danish meaning of Bae? Do we accept and still keep them before anyone else? Do we remain dedicated and loyal to foolishness or do we depart in an orderly fashion and lie in wait for the next Bae? I mean it brings up so many questions but how do we deal with all this? Sometimes the reason it doesnt last with…

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She’s Changed

Dear Mrs Vito

Transitioning and navigating from single-hood to a relationship, especially when you know it’s a serious relationship can be hard.
Ideally at this time you want your friends and family to get on with your chosen guy/girl. But what if they don’t?

I personally picked a guy that truly challenged my perceptions, norms and comfort zone. In my opinion to an extreme, except he wasn’t an extremist. Because, if I’m harsh with myself  I was ok with playing it safe.

Of course I had goals, ambitions and was driven. Yet not being a huge risk taker meant I often stayed within my comfort zone.

Never one to start a fight, or unsettle a situation. He definitely instilled more confidence in me to stand up for myself, voice my opinion and make a change.

From the outside this can easily be viewed as someone changing, or that they are not being themselves…

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We would both like to congratulate all mothers who have worked hard to ensure their children become something in this difficult world. There are so many children who have been left without a mother for one reason or the other but you stayed, you related and you initiated and you are still raising your children to stand for something. One thing We want to say to you is no matter how successful you get financially remember to continue to value your children. You are granted wisdom to first put your seed in great standing. Money is part of that process but not all of it.

Your children turning out well should be counted as part of your greater picture and although money says chase me your children eternally cry “raise me”.

So as you celebrate today we want you to know you are appreciated. You are at this stage where your child needs you and your time and effort may sometimes be taken for granted but you will overcome the odds and shape history with your efforts.

To the children reading this post your mother is part of your foundation, your walls, and your rooftop, so treat her like Pure Gold, she is important.

So Happy Mother’s Day!!

In honour of this
We pray mothers and their children find peace in the midst of a difficult world. We pray that the Mothers and Fathers come together in Unity through Gods grace to instruct and boundary their kids to grow and succeed in all facets.

In Jesus Name,

Amen

With Love and Courage

Mr and Mrs Vito

Real Love Looks Like Work – Love & Purpose

Hey Guys!!

Happy New Year to you all, we trust that this entry finds you all happy at the start of what promises to both be a great and interesting new year. We also hope that you have set your goals and are already in motion to figure out how  you can maximise of being effective towards your dreams. Someone reading this could be dreaming about the Man or Woman they are going to meet who will inevitably change their life for the better. Not that we depend on the person coming to be our all in all  but that we love ourselves enough to become dependable for the person who is coming. What about your pupose though surely without purpose there is no point to a relationship… WRONG!! Purpose will determine the kind of a relationships you allow to entertain. However the quality of your chosen relationship will determine how consistently you attend to your purpose.

So seeing as this is a mixed bag of tricks full of twists and turns #TeamVito has put together a workshop/seminar/conversation with those two underlying themes, Love & Purpose. Regardless of which one has come first for you whether Love or Purpose, you dont need to choose between one or the other but you must know that that the two affect each other in more ways than one. Come along and find out how you can walk these two down the route of fufilment.

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£8 when you arrive with proof of early bird registration.. thats a £2 discount! Otherwise £10 at the door.

We are so looking forward to seeing you all and having a good time talking and walking this path together for a few hours.

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https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/real-love-looks-like-work-love-purpose-tickets-31150402693

See you guys soon!!

 

#TeamVito Will Be At “The Faithfulness Of God” FVTV

Greetings people so it’s been a good few weeks and the events where you can’t catch dining our thing are mounting up. This weekend we are in great company of Family Values TV great presentation. It’s called the Faithfulness of God and we are honoured and priveledged to be a part of this great conversation. We will be running Workshops and Seminars as well as Q & A’s around Building relationships Gods way.  

Whether you know it or not Relationships are part and parcel of fufilling your purpose. Someone once said that when you are  on your sick bed you won’t be asking to see your bank account but your family and those who are close to you. Wise up and cultivate that which matters most to your legacy. The fact remains we living in a generation where people have the strongest sense of entitlement to love, to power, to influence, to sex, to respect amongst other things but rarely do they invest in the person they are to become to manage what they believe they are entitled to. That lack of preparation is the reason the generations to come are suffering from pain and disillusionment as the political, financial and other landscapes change. We cannot be the people we need to be without effective preparation and insight. So before we get too deep on this post. We hope to see you there this weekend. 

Kingly regards

#TeamVito.

#TeamVito Will Be At?

Hey Guys,

We both trust that you are all doing well. We continue to be busy trying to help people find, keep and grow love. Now of course we have some lovely events for you to get your wisdom teeth into. Yes you are most certainly cordially invited to our next excursion where we will be talking the talk of daily walkers loool

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#INBAEWETRUST?

Friday 21st of October 2016 6:30 PM – 9 PM

The event is centred on the concept of placing God at the centre of any relationship and will touch on themes such as: masculinity, cat fishing, dating apps, God’s timing and so much mo along with many other special guests and it promises to be an awesome experience.

UCL,
Gower Street,
CT14 9 London,
United Kingdom
6:30 PM – 9 PM
Entry is £3
We hope to see you there guys there.
More good news to come, keep your eyes peeled and keep focused on the things that matter till then.
Mr & Mrs Vito

3 Tips For Conflict Resolution

In this Video we share 3 tips For Conflict Resolution and Management where possible. Lovers argue every now and then. Solution may not always be in reach at the moment you argue but handling conflict well reduces repeated issues and lengthly dysfunctional encounters which scar both people for life.

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